About us

This website origins started in 2005 by one of the founding members who discovered her husband of five years was cheating on her. It was devastating divorce and through it all with friends and family support she made it through. During the time of her marriage the signs of cheating were there but she did not know what to look for. It was only until she went to a private investigator (and spent quite a bit of money) that her suspicions were confirmed. Her husband was having two affairs with her sister and a workmate. Yes it was even worst than she thought. The name of that founding member is Michelle Marshall (formerly Michelle Parris).

In 2008 when everything had settled down and the divorce was finalised Michelle became an advocate against infidelity in marriages and relationships. She eventually through mutual acquaintances formed a group of partners (including her former private eye) and this is where everything came into focus. Through research and contributions from each member of the group how-to-catch-a-spouse-cheating.com was created. Each member has their own story when it comes to infidelity and this is on both sides. All of them were cheated on and two of the four were unfaithful. Therefore you are getting first hand information on what to look for with a cheater.

This website’s mission is to become the premier website when it comes to discovering, confronting and dealing with infidelity in a relationship. It’s purpose is not to break up marriages or relationships but to expose the truth. The decision to remain in the relationship will be totally up to you. We have also included relationship tools and resources to get your relationship back on track if you decide to remain in the relationship. We will strive to be as informative, up to date and cutting edge as we deliver valuable content to you our readers.