Posted by admin on July 25, 2011 under People who cheat | 
Today, the people who cheat in a relationship come in all shapes, sizes and looks. It is no longer the smooth operator but that innocent looking mother or father who is doing the dirty deeds as well. Anyone is capable of infidelity in their lives and it all depends on various factors and circumstances. However, there are people who are more likely to be unfaithful than others.
We have received several questions pertaining to the most likely candidates to be a cheater. It is a very popular question and many persons have their own views and opinions on the topic. The main thing to remember is that anyone can be unfaithful; there are women who cheat and men who cheat. Another popular question is whether a person who cheated on you previously will do it again. The answer is yes but statistics show 20% are actually repeat offenders once caught. Remember only a small portion of persons will mess around no matter what.
Below is a list of the most likely people who cheat:
- Attractive People: There is a direct correlation with a person’s looks and their likelihood to be unfaithful. When someone is attractive they will get more attention whether male or female. This attention is sometimes too overwhelming for anyone no matter the gender of the person.
- Opportunity: Possibilities can’t pass someone by all the time sometimes you will take them. Opportune times like business trips; long working hours and other activities which involve one partner only opens the doors for infidelity. It can go either way with the person who is away or at home.
- Wealthy: When someone is wealthy or is known to be well off they tend to attract many persons towards them. Women are attracted to men who are rich because these persons can better take care of them and can also give them the quality of life they hope for. The term gold digger does come to mind when you take a look at some of the people the stars have cheated with. Some women actually pocketed millions out of affairs with wealthy men and even wrote books.
- Popular: When someone is popular he or she is well known either by profession (athlete, dj, lawyer); or maybe personality (in the workplace) or socially. Whatever reason it may be persons are drawn to these people. Other persons tend to put them on a pedastal in terms of excitement or in terms of association (i.e. you hanging with this person so you are cool).
- Low self-esteem: Everyone has low self esteem for some reason or another from time to time. There are persons who suffer from it constantly because of the position they may be in or psychologically over the years. The most common causes of low self esteem are weight issues and relationship issues. These people are more susceptible to cheating when the opportunity comes there way.
- People who cheat previously: We previously discussed that a cheater who is caught is 20% likely to be a repeater. How about those girls or guys who cheated on their previous partners? These are likely to be unfaithful on you as well because they broke that barrier. A barrier is a mental block or boundary which you don’t cross. It is like a lie, when you start to lie to your parents it becomes easier over time. You may even begin to justify certain activities over time.
- Age: There is more evidence showing the younger you are the more promiscuous you tend to be especially persons under the age of thirty. This is because persons at a younger age are quite not ready to settle down. They generally don’t have the commitments or maturity as older persons would have and they have more options open to them because of their youth.
- Friends are players: If your spouse or lover has close friends who are players or are promiscuous this increases the chances of them being the same. Remember birds of a feather flock together. So keep an eye on who they hang with, it may give you a clue of who your spouse really is.
This comes to the end of our article which deals with people who cheat in relationships. If you suspect your partner is unfaithful it is time to start to look for the signs. Try reading our article on the signs of cheating to get further details into whether this is true or in your mind.
Posted by admin on July 24, 2011 under People who cheat |
The reasons why people cheat depends on the individual and their character. Men and women usually have different reasons for cheating. This is mainly due to the different characteristics of males and females.
Statistics show that over 60% of married men have been involved in at least one extra marital sexual experience compared to females which are between 45% and 55%. So it is more than a 50% chance your spouse was unfaithful to you or will be at some point of your relationship. Extra marital affairs are the major causes of breakups and divorces in society today. All of this will make you wonder about regular relationships which do not have as much weight.
It takes work and commitment on both parties’ side to keep a relationship going. Most persons take the easier route oppose to the harder route of working things out. This is because it is easier to find someone else who is willing to listen and be supportive than to mend the broken fences in the relationship. Many professionals have concluded that the lack of commitment of this generation is the major reason why people cheat so often. This is not only in relationships but also at work, school and play. If it gets to hard then find something easier.
People have both physical and emotional needs. If you are able to satisfy your partner’s needs then it is less likely your partner will cheat on you. The words “less likely” was carefully chosen because some persons will be unfaithful to you no matter what you do. The key in prevention of infidelity is to know your partner’s needs and then formulate a plan to satisfy them without ignoring your own needs. It may have been natural for you to satisfy his or her needs before but as the years pass people tend to become comfortable. They forget what is important in the relationship and many lose that initial emotional connection.
Discussing the physical and emotional reasons why people cheat is quite an extensive task. Therefore we have broken down these topics into sub articles in which one will deal with the physical aspect of infidelity and the other deals with emotional infidelity. The first part we will look at are the physical aspects. In order to move to this section click continue below.
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Men are getting a lot of licks these days because of the famous men who were caught cheating in the media. The common belief by women is that all men cheat. It is true statistically men are more likely to be unfaithful than women; however it must be noted that there are more faithful men than unfaithful men. There are certain types of guys who are more prone to infidelity than others. This is the purpose of this article. You should be able to determine whether your lover or spouse falls into that category of men who cheat on their partner.
If your guy fall under this category it does not mean he will two time you. It means he will be more likely to be lead off the straight and narrow path because of his disposition. You can use this information to analyse the risks and then try to position your relationship better. If you are concerned he is doing something then you need to read our article about the signs of men who cheat. This is an informative tutorial which gives you the necessary tools to help you realise the truth. If he is displaying two or more signs then you will have to dig deeper to ascertain what is really going on.
Below is a list of the five main types of men who cheat and some information on why they are so likely to do so:
- Wealthy men:Women are attracted more to men with wealth and power. Some are gold diggers and others may like the prestige or power being affiliated with a wealthy man. Whatever the reason these men get more attention than the average male. If we were to look from his perspective the thought of having constant attention really feeds his ego especially if the person is much younger. What make it worse is that these men have the money to cover up the relationship easier for example the business trip which is actually a rendezvous with their lover.The other side of wealthy cheating is with prostitutes. Preachers, actors and politicians all have been caught with high profile prostitutes. Prostitution is the new means of cheating in a relationship. It is usually purely physical with no commitments or investment of emotional energy. You just pay your money, do what you have to do and move on. Men who cheat with prostitutes are really not looking for anything more than sex. However by doing so they open their partners to STD’s which these persons maybe carrying.
- Popular Men:These are persons who are well known or in the public spotlight. They maybe wealthy or poor but whatever they do tend to draw persons whether it is by personality or profession. These persons usually have many friends and always seem to be on the go. They get a lot of attention from the opposite sex because of their disposition. Women especially are attracted to these guys and being associated with these persons brings a glimmer to their life.The problem with the attention as with wealthy men who cheat is the opportunities. These guys have more opportunities than the average guy so they will more likely to be unfaithful at some point of time.
- Friends are players: Bird of a feather flock together is so true. Men who have close friends that are players also tend to be one as well.This is for many reasons including peer pressure from each other to cheat and the fact they will cover for each other does not help the situation as well.
- Men who cheated previously: If he cheated prior on you he is 20% likely to cheat again if he is caught. If he cheated with his previous girlfriends it is very likely he will also cheat on you. You must realise your relationship may be no different than his previous ones.
- Emotionally distant or introverted: These are the guys who don’t want to become emotionally attached or intimate with their lover or spouse. This is a safeguard mechanism to prevent them from being hurt in the future. They may have been hurt prior from past relationships and as a result have had issues with investing all they have emotionally. They men cheat not for physical gain but to emotionally distant themselves from their spouse or lover. In this way if they are disappointed later in the relationship it is less hurtful.
This comes to the end of our review on the type of men you will will find cheating in a relationship. The other side is women who cheat in their relationship. If this article sent a spark to your head and you would like to find out if her is really cheating or not then read our article on how to catch a cheater
