What are the signs that someone is cheating on you?

Posted by admin on July 25, 2011 under Signs of cheating | Be the First to Comment

So right about now you are wondering if he or she is cheating. Are there signs of cheating that you are not noticing? The fact that it crossed your mind suggests there is something but you may not be able to put your finger on. Your intuition is a very powerful tool in recognising infidelity. Your subconscious picks up faint odours (perfumes, sexual fluid), discrepancies (such as stories not meshing especially over a period of time) etc. Therefore the fact that someone is unfaithful to you sometimes manifests itself as a gut feeling.

Some interesting statistics are that 50% of guys gut feelings are correct about infidelity however the ladies are 70% correct. Yes guys, the ladies have a huge advantage because they are more emotionally in tuned, so they can spot the signs someone is a cheat easier and they are also better at two timing. Do not worry guys there are still prevalent signs she is cheating which you can use to catch her in the act.

So are you ready for the signs of cheating in a relationship?

Before you even start please remember that although your partner is exhibiting these symptoms does not mean he or she is messing around. Please take the time to read our article on how to catch a cheater to get the details on how to get the facts so you can make a decision.

Below is our actual list so take your time and go through everything slowly. It is quite long and therefore it was divided across three separate web pages.

• Attention to personal appearance: Why is he or she obsessed now on looking good? You may see them do a complete change of their wardrobe, joining a gym or even turn a gym fanatic. This is an indication that they have a need to impress someone. The things (looks, appearances) you would accept he/she will be uncertain the other person would want or accept. So it is time for an overhaul of their appearance to match up. This ranks high on the signs of cheating for both men and women; it is almost like they have started a new relationship.

• Secretive cell phone behaviour: Was their openness before in terms of phone usage? Now they seem a bit secretive with their cell phone or they go to take private calls. In a relationship everything should be open in terms of phone usage. Or are they afraid of a lover text being found or their lover’s phone number? Take a look at our articles on cell phone surveillance technology to uncover this mystery.

• Deleting Frenzy: Deleting texts and call logs from their phone and clearing internet history is away to hide what is being done. Why delete do you have something to hide? If this is the case phone surveillance software or computer monitoring software is usually the best method. This will leave you with a clear conscious. This is provided it is legal in your area.

• Lack of sex or reduction in performance: if there is intimacy in the affair then there is a chance that you will notice your spouse or lover has lost interest in sex at least with you. This is because his/her needs are being fulfilled elsewhere. Reduction in performance relates more to the signs he is unfaithful. Basically he does not have the stamina to please two persons in one day.

• A new glow: Women are more emotional than men are. A fresh fling makes them livelier and happier. This is especially when their emotional needs are being fulfilled. An emotional affair or an affair where there is a lot of emotional energy being invested and reciprocated makes a woman happy. Basically, you will notice a happier person but you won’t be able to account for this change in behaviour.

• High internet usage or an increase in usage: This is the modern day sign that someone is cheating. Sometimes it is done unintentionally in which your spouse meets someone and things roll from there. The other scenario is that your partner actually goes hunting on the internet to look to have a fling or affair. This is quite easy now with web sites which pride themselves on helping married men and women cheat on their spouses.

• Unexplained loss in time: unaccounted time in which they fumble and lie about is a concern. Few unfaithful spouses are good at remembering lies so get a notepad and ask the same question over time. You might get different answers for the same question today and next month.

Above is the seven major signs of cheating in a relationship but there are much more. To continue to  the next stage