What are the signs of cheating in a relationship part 3

Posted by admin on September 17, 2011 under Uncategorized | Be the First to Comment

This is our final chapter in the series which deals with the signs of infidelity in a relationship. If you have not read the previous chapters then you should do so by clicking the links below on the desired one you wish to review.

Chapter 1

Chapter 2

Below is the final part of our list of the signs of cheating in a relationship.

• Do not answer the phone or phone is off: Have they said too often they forgot their phone in the car or that the phone died. Then you really need to take a look at how this happens so often. This is a good cover to have uninterrupted quality time with their lover.

• Increase Calls: This is true especially in an emotional affair. Since the newly found love interest is developing feelings for your spouse and would like to hear them more often. Your spouse might even start to screen calls in your presence which may seem odd to avoid explaining the frequent calling.

• Loans or loss money: Bad loans or a loan to a friend is a good way a cheating spouse to hide their spending habits.  This is one of the subtle signs of cheating which usually goes unnoticed.

• Strange Requests in Sex: This should be self explanatory? Are you wondering where theses kinky requests are coming from? How comes he or she is now a sex expert and you are really enjoying it in the sack. It is not always a sprite of inspiration but alternate sex with a new lover. Sex 101 class is in session!!

• Want to do laundry:  If he or she never does the laundry and want to start out of the blue, then keep your eye open?

• Exaggerated display of affection or overly affectionate: This is a sign of guilt similar to showering you with gifts out the blue or constantly. Many cheaters especially first time cheaters have this guilt in them but it tends to wither away over time as they become comfortable.

• Increased reference or talking about the third party: They may say he or she is so nice and kind and you heard it all. They may even start comparing you to them. This obsession with a “friend” may be more than just admiration. It is a big indication of an emotional affair. This may be one of the obvious signs of cheating however; your lover may not consider it cheating especially if there is no physical contact.

• May mention that how he or she is not happy or satisfied: She is no longer satisfied because she thinks there is better out there or have someone else.

• Disinterested in things around home and family: Your lover may prefer to spend their time doing things outside the home. They forget important dates and event. You are actually wasting their precious time. Some cheaters may even be more agitated around you like they can’t stand you.

• Develops interest in new activities, hobbies, or interests: The cheating lover becomes involved in activities which you don’t participate in and they are away from you more. This give them time to meet and spend time with the object of their affection.

• Passenger Car seat being adjusted: A quick check of the passenger car seats before and after the day is over and you can tell if someone was in the vehicle. Many times the seat is not adjusted because no one will figure you can pick it up. The only thing you need to do is to ask a question to see if he/she would lie about it. Please do not make it a direct question but indirect so that the person does not suspect anything. This is one signs of cheating which your love one will not be conscious of.

• Increase Mileage on a vehicle odometer: This requires a history of the typical distance travelled and need to be monitored on a daily or bi daily basis. If you know the typical mileage used and you are seeing significant unexplained increases, you need to find out where those extra miles are going. It might be legitimate or something is going on.

• Strange items left in home or vehicle: These items are accidentally or purposely left by their lover to hint to you that your spouse is being unfaithful. It is sometimes guilt which causes this or it is the fact they want you and your partner’s relationship to end so they can fill the position.

This is the end of our article on the signs of cheating and we hope it is eye opening and informative to you. Please remember if your lover is displaying two or more signs its may be time to investigate further. Take a look at our article on techniques to catch a cheater for more details.

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